How To Please a Woman
Here's How:
1. Take your time. You may be raring to go, but understand that it physically takes her body longer than yours to become aroused.
2. Don't skip the foreplay. Caress her slowly, beginning perhaps with a non-genital massage. Work up to her erotic areas slowly; she'll indicate when she's ready for things to heat up.
3. Discover her erogenous zones. Some women love to have their nipples stroked or sucked, others don't. Find out where she likes to be touched -- and don't frustrate her by doing something elsewhere that won't please her. To give her more pleasure
4. Understand that she may be self-conscious about her body. If so, don't criticize her figure or the size of her breasts. In fact, don't call attention to her body at all. Enjoy her body with your eyes and hands, not your words.
5. Introduce her to the pleasures of oral sex. She's likely to find the intensity of the experience most satisfying if you locate her clitoris and stroke it with your tongue in a way that brings her to climax.
6. Know how her body works. Have you found her g-spot? Can she use her Kegel muscles during intercourse? Is she capable of multiple orgasms? All of these are wonderful to find out.
7. Try sex positions that maximize her pleasure. Women-on-top positions generally afford the kind of contact that delivers the best results.
8. Smell great. Not perfumed, just clean and manly.
9. Make birth control a mutual responsibility. Don't leave it up to her -- unless she requests you do so.
10. Mind your manners: Ladies first. Whenever possible, see to it that she orgasms before you do. And if she tells you it's not going to happen that night, accept it. There's always tomorrow... or a little bit later.
Tips:
- Tell her you love her. When the feeling comes over you, say it out loud. She'll know how much you genuinely mean it.
- A small token of affection is always appreciated. A flower, a book, a love note all tell her how much you're thinking of her and how precious she is to you.
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