How To Break Social Barriers

Learn how to gain confidence with beautiful women by practicing approaching and conversing with them in a relaxed way for dating.

That doesn't make much sense, does it?

This all comes from social pressure. No one wants to look stupid. Everyone wants to be the coolest guy in the room. And when you stand up in front of people, you give yourself the chance to FAIL.

When it comes to thefool quote. Almost everyone is so scared of doing something dumb that they end up doing nothing. When opportunity arises they flash back to a bad experience from Junior High, all these negative emotions come flooding, and they freeze.

When matchmaking the emotional pain of embarrassment and - worse - rejection is very real. Most guys prefer physical discomfort to social awkwardness. So eventually you just avoid situations where things can get awkward or embarrassing or - worse - rejecting.

Time for some tough love. When you're on your death bed - should you be so lucky to have a bed - it isn't going to be the things you tried and failed that you regret.

It's the things you HAVEN'T TRIED. Always. Because you never know what might have been.

It's like breaking through the burn in a serious exercise regimen. It sucks while it happens, but once you've made it through it doesn't seem so bad - in fact, you get to kind of enjoy it. Why? Because instead of avoiding the burn with fear, you push yourself towards it, and you get great results. You wind up feeling good, and pride comes that you pushed yourself through to the reward.

Guess what? Approaching women much like that. It is EXACTLY like that.

When dating you see a beautiful woman and those nerves come, that's normal. Everyone gets that. Even the best of the best still get that occasionally, and those are guys with AMAZING success rates.

EVERYONE is scared of looking like a fool, and a beautiful woman can do that to you better than most. Hence, approach anxiety.

DEAL with it.

Most men don't fail with women because of some fatal flaw in their being. It's because they never put themselves into a position where they can succeed. And when by luck they find themselves in that position they don't know what to do because they've rarely been there!

Thus, they screw it up, receive more negative feedback, and avoid such situations even MORE in the future. This is what psychologists call a negative feedback loop, and it's an ugly thing. Tough to deal with too.

So what's a guy to do?

BREAK THE LOOP.

I'm not going to lie to you. When you approach women - especially to start - you'll have some negative interactions. You'll be nervous, and although most women will be much nicer than your dark fantasies, they probably won't respond the way you want them to.

Even a nice brush-off is a brush-off, and it still stings.

Plus, there will be some women who WON'T be nice, WON'T humor your awkward attempts, and will blow you out of the water.